"Love is any amount of emotions related to a scene of strong affection"."Love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person".
I had heard someone said this before: "You do not really understand something clearly until you can explain it in its simple form".
I had heard somebody said this too: "The most difficulty word/thing to explains in this world is non-other than LOVE".
Well, I feels that "LOVE" is not the word/thing that most difficult to explain.Instead, it's the Relationship between you & the particular person that you Love!
The confused relationship made you have confusion towards the word "Love".Shouldn't Love be an expression of caring, loving, happy, sweet, romance & so on? My answer is: Definitely! It should be!
A relationship should make you to become stronger & more mature in your thinking, instead of carrying all the negative thoughts in your mind & live your life on!
However, usually the hurts from your previous relationship made you changed your mindset & thinking, changed the right value of "Love" in your heart, because you had been keep on rehearsing it.
You should Let it go instead of Holding on! What's the point of holding on to something that hurt you before? It will hurt you more & stop you from moving on. You deserved a happy life, just let all the hurts became past.